January 29, 2020 FOR THE FIRST TIME

Although I HATE getting older--I have to admit that there are a few good things about it. One of the BEST things-- I REALLY don't care what other people think. OKAY--maybe the cocktails helped too. So--Last weekend I went to Boston to visit my daughter and we went out to celebrate my birthday. Talk about FUN. She took me to a piano bar and the next thing I knew--I was called on stage for a birthday song. YUP--I VERY eagerly ran on to the stage and hopped on the piano for my song. I WAS a famous performer for 5 minutes. I Didn't feel--embarrassed --self-conscious--SHY at all. I was a REAL HAM. WHO KNEW???  I NEVER would have done that when I was younger BUT now that I'm older--I totally embraced it. I was ALL in. When was the last time you did something out of the ordinary??
The three main characters in Kate Quinn's new book The Huntress had extraordinary lives because they lived on their own terms. The Huntress is a historically based novel set just after World War II in Austria and the United States that is told through three different characters.  Ian Graham, a journalist during the war, is now on the trail of Nazi war criminals.  He is obsessed with catching the Huntress because she killed his brother during the war. Nina Markova was a member of a Russian, all female bomber regiment during the war. After falling behind enemy lines, she barely escaped with her life as the Huntress tried to kill her. After the war, Nina is recruited to help track down the Huntress because she is the only person who can identify her. The final character is Jordan McBride. She lives in post-war Boston with her long widowed father, Dan. Shortly after meeting a German widow and her young daughter, Dan decides that it's time to marry again even though his daughter has suspicions about the widow's past. Don't want to say much more about the book except that I loved it. It was well written, the characters were interesting and it was a real page turner. It's about 550 pages--or a 5 mile run--that flies.

January 17, 2020 DRAW THE LINE

Drawing is hard work. It's hard because artists have to really SEE. I know you SEE things every day and that's part of  the problem. The brain has preprogrammed images stored up about what things look like so when someone tries to draw--say a tree-- the brain  takes over  and the person draws what the brain THINKS the tree looks like from stored memories instead of what the person actually sees. An artist must learn to OVERRIDE the brain and draw only what he or she SEES. It's really difficult at first but with practice it gets easier. It's the same with all shapes. Take the nose--the brain tries to take over and its a disaster. But if you really take the time to SEE--you will notice that the nose is really  just some curvy shapes with two oval-like shapes for the nostrils. Anyone can  learn to draw--it's just a matter of SEEING and PUTTING in the effort it takes to get better.
Many things in life take a lot of effort and this is seen in Sally Rooney's new book Normal People. This lovely novel is the story of Connell and Marianne and their relationship. It begins in a small town in West Ireland and continues when the two attend Trinity College. Connell is from a poor but loving family while Marianne is from a  wealthy but  unloving, dysfunctional family. These factors determine how they relate to each other and the world around them. The story is told from both points of view where often times each misinterprets what the other says or means leading to a series of break ups. Even when they break up, Connell and Marianne are still drawn to each other because they share a strong bond and mutual attraction. This is ultimately a story about relationships and how they shape our lives. It's also about friendship, misunderstanding and the damage family can do that can shape the way someone sees world. I really enjoyed this book and think you will too. It's only 290 pages or a 3 mile run that will leave you with a lot to think about.  Enjoy.

January 12, 2020 GET ME SOME OF THAT

Is there really such a thing as forgive and forget? I GUESS if the thing you HAVE to forget is benign. Forgiveness--in my mind--is the easy part--we forgive FOR ourselves NOT  the other person. Right? We  forgive so that we can grow and try to be happy in life. If we don't forgive--we eventually become full of resentment-- anger--bitterness--nasty buggers that will RUIN your life.  Okay--I can forgive but I can't forget AND that sometimes gets in my way.  Some people are  lucky enough (I think) to develop a case of SELECTIVE MEMORY.  Seriously--Science has actually shown that people can choose to remember or forget things. They can actually train their brains to forget unpleasant memories. I gotta get me some of that. Don't think there is any forgive or forget in Margaret Atwood's sequel to The Handmaid's Tale. 
Atwood's new book The Testaments picks up fifteen years after the first novel and the Republic of Gilead is still in control. This novel is a three part narrative where the characters take turns filling the reader in on what's happened between novels as well as what is currently happening in Gilead. Agnes Jemima is a young girl who  grew up in Gilead, the daughter of a Commander and his Wife. She is trying to make sense of Gilead and her place as a female. Aunt Lydia is a powerful Aunt who has been around since the birth of the Republic. One of the most powerful women in Gilead,  Aunt Lydia works behind the scenes with Commander Judd. Daisy is a young woman who lives outside of Gilead's border.  After her parents are murdered, she joins the Mayday Movement to try to infultrate Gilead and destroy the republic. This novel is more about the fall of Gilead, a world run by fear, control, and executions. It is truly a dystopia that is even more shocking than the original book because its leadership is out of control. I don't usually read sequels but this was recommended by a friend and is worth the read. Atwood's writing is beautiful--it's like slipping into an old shoe. This novel is about 400 pages that flies by like a 4 mile run.

January 4, 2020 ONLY SIXTEEN

Found out last week that an old boyfriend died. Talk about feeling your own mortality. Hadn't seen him in many years but the news really shook me. He was my first love. I was in high school and he was in the Air Force. It was a difficult relationship because it was a long distance thing--most of the time. I have fond memories of our time together but we were BOTH too young and dumb. Thankfully I didn't marry him-- BUT--what if I had married him all those years ago?? I was glad to hear that he later married and had two daughters. I hope he was happy. I hope he forgave me for breaking his heart. Wish I could have seen him one more time.  You never-ever know. Every day is really a gift. The Conroy family learns this lesson a little late in The Dutch House by Ann Patchett.
This lovely novel spans five generations and is narrated by Danny Conroy. As the story unfolds, Cyril Conroy, the patriarch of the family, has finally made enough money to buy The Dutch House for his wife, Elna and children. The house is a sprawling estate in the suburbs of Philadelphia. Danny and his sister Maeve love the house, but their mother feels otherwise. When Mauve is ten years old, her mother abandons the family, leaving them crushed. Luckily, they have a loving household staff  to pick up the slack, but the loss haunts the children forever. After their father remarries a calculating widow, he suddenly dies and she inherits everything. Danny and Maeve  then find themselves homeless and penniless with only each other to rely on. After losing the house, the two become obsessed with the past which ultimately effects their adult lives. What happened to their mother? Will they ever see her again? Will they ever get The Dutch House back? Find out what happens when the sibling are finally forced to confront the past and the people that left them behind. I am a huge fan of Patchett and this novel does not disappoint. The writing is thoughtful--the characters are interesting--the house is incredible. This book is about 350 pages or a 4 mile run that will stick with you forever.